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Just-At-Home Resilient Living Parties

by: Readymom

Sat Feb 16, 2008 at 10:33:40 AM EST


I thought this was an interesting idea that was brought back up by Inky, so I thought I'd pop it into it's own diary.

by: InKy @ Mon Jun 11, 2007 at 10:55:57 AM EDT

This is an idea I'd like to post for consideration and refinement.
First caveat - "party" isn't the right word, and alternative suggestions are welcome.

Hilarious irony - I'm thinking of gatherings based in part on the model of those at-home parties I never go to - you know the sort I'm talking about - Pampered Chef parties, PartyLite candle parties, Longaberger parties, Tupperware parties, Arbonne parties, and the like.

I like the idea of pitching prep as the concept of Resilient Living - this ties in with what anon.xyz said in the opening post on this thread, and I'm going to lift some stuff I wrote on another thread by way of explanation. Resilient living is  not running scared but being savvy, as in not standing first in line for the next Darwin Award.  To  be "afraid," to be "alarmed," is a kind of a social no-no in our society; no one wants to appear to be perturbed by a threat. But being "resilient" sounds smart. It implies living sustainably and being prepared for whatever comes, being intellectually nimble, resourceful and adaptable, and it also implies being psychologically resilient, not preyed upon by fear and worry. In short, I like the idea of drawing people together around the idea of personal and collective resilience.

In any case, I know we've got to make it cool and smart to prep, not "alarmist," and we've got to find common ground and build upon it. I think we can use social networking to do this.

So I'm thinking of home or small group Just-at-Home Resilient Living gatherings, involving participants in learning about the pandemic threat and preparing for it (video, information, resources on display, some hands on activities).  Such gatherings could also introduce the idea of collaborative planning among people who have some connection with each other.

We might model Resilient Living gatherings loosely on the home party industry, where the host is not the presenter.  I like the idea of the presenter being a knowledgeable volunteer instead (perhaps from a neighboring community) and the host being (or posing as) someone who is not necessarily a prepper but simply someone who has an interest and a concern for friends, family, and co-workers.  I think there needs to be some protection of the privacy of the presenter, such that presenters aren't putting their personal preparations at risk by speaking publicly.  Hosts and presenters could be people who've never met each other before or they could be a pair of preppers in nearby towns who simply agree to switch roles as host and prepper in each other's communities.  That second strategy might get things started. We'd have to devise a means by which willing hosts could find presenters and vice versa.

This model could scale up to larger events with a large group presentation and smaller demonstration booths (how to purify water, how to build a solar oven, how to give good home care, how to put on a respirator and otherwise minimize risk of infection, etc).  Venues wouldn't have to be limited to people's homes, of course.

If we could find sources of funding, I'd like Just-at-Home Resilient Living event kits to be potentially more than just files we can download to use (invitation templates, event announcements, PowerPoints or videos, event plans, and printable informational handouts), but actual materials for use in demonstrations that could be returned or sold at cost to participants.  The host might receive a gift. (I don't want a for-profit model - that would muddy the mission's credibility.)  
Could this work?  Ideas?  Refinements?
So, Ideas?

 

Readymom :: Just-At-Home Resilient Living Parties
Food: First thing I thought of was a basic easy recipe using prep items to eat. Feature those food prep items at the 'party'.

Medical: Of course, you'd have PPE items. (Show how to properly put on a mask? Safely REMOVE gloves?) Maybe have everyone mix their own little packets of ORS solution (stuff will keep for ages & ages).

Prep Kits: Possibly you could have a basic kit pulled together, showcase it at your home event. Take orders (you know where to get the items). Sell the kits at 'cost' (profit making would be a legal problem, I think). The idea would be to get folks started NOT making $$! You would now how much the items cost (when you plan the kit, so you collect just that much $$)You deliver the kits to the 'host' who gets them to her guests.

Video: show a short video (redcross video comes to mind)...... other ideas.

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I think this looks like a natural "next step" now that the Ready Moms Alliance is moving along.  I mean ...

There are 2 week kits, and a website and a Citizen's Manual and also some official stuff.

So all people need is a printer and maybe a couple of buckets ... hey, you could even ask people to bring something specific in the list (each of them doesn't need to know the whole list), and together they'd have it all, and a lucky winner (or the person who answers more "trivia" questions about flu or preparedness etc) would take it all home!

Maybe such "parties", "gatherings" or whatever they are named, may even have started already, and we wouldn't know.

Now, how to swap places?  There's http://www.meetup.com but I don't know how that would work.  Of course, the first such swapping might happen here.  Do we have volunteers to try it out?

You arm yourself to the teeth just in case.  You don't leave the gun near the baby's hand.


ecomoms
hat tip to ACM on another thread - the link is here:

http://newfluwiki2.com/showCom...

You arm yourself to the teeth just in case.  You don't leave the gun near the baby's hand.


Thinking
I like these ideas - especially the hands-on activities.

Maybe give people alternatives in terms of how they obtain what they need.

Two years ago I would have gladly bought a resilience kit in a box (an infrastructure replacement kit, so to speak)  just to get me started.  But I started with nothing useful in the house except a flashlight or two. I didn't have emergency anything.  

Kit-in-a-box options are also great if party guests do not have Internet access or shy away from online ordering.  

Others - people who own camping equipment, for instance - may have a resilience/infrastructure replacement kit in the making already. They'd be shopping a la carte.

Some may want to pick up items analogous to whatever's in the kit on their own, at a hardware store or a Wal-Mart, or the local grocery store.

Others might appreciate a link to a buying list at Amazon. Maybe there's a different list for homeowners and for apartment dwellers, because needs will vary.

I'm thinking that people would just need a list for what might go into a two-week basic food prep kit, with items that could be purchased at an area grocery store.  Other options and buying information might be offered by way of a handout.

Personally, I'd love to go to a party where I could taste a recipe or two from the food prep box or pantry preps and maybe an MRE and some wheat berry salad in order to evaluate my food prep options, but that's my personal predilection for exploring everything. Many people may desperately need to keep it simple, so maybe the party keeps it simple, while guests can opt to pick up additional information.

A resilience party shouldn't be a once-and-done event, ideally.  A successful party might lead to a network of people who explore prepping further, expand their numbers through their social or neighborhood network, and even work on their own "pandemic village resilience" together.  (I have this theory that every neighborhood becomes its own little village during a pandemic, and that resilience needs to be planned collaboratively at that level.)


start small, with no ficticious ceiling
and yes, neighborhood resilience ...

You arm yourself to the teeth just in case.  You don't leave the gun near the baby's hand.

[ Parent ]
Party idea is just the social lubricant to get the gears turning.
   This is a party, not a revival. Yes many have risen to the occasion before but without the event, "the 2x4 across the head", a soft approach may work best.

  While war has stired many, it was the Johnstown flood that got the Amercian side of the Red cross going. 9-11 brought many together.

  One question - how do we replicate what works?

  We start all these parties who go off in different directions finding many good answers and keeping them.

  How are the good ideas filterd back through the hive and / or all the groups?

Kobie
FWAP - "Fun with a purpose"


[ Parent ]
good ideas filtered back through the hive and/or the groups ...
that's interesting

- blogs
- email
- google maps

there must be ways out there to do this

i'm specially intrigued by the map idea - it has to be restricted to the state or at most the county level

You arm yourself to the teeth just in case.  You don't leave the gun near the baby's hand.


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Great ideas rising from pools of knowlege, rain down where the winds blow them
Lugon,

 First I have not been drinking. :o)

 Second, SusanC has a great cause that can grow.

 Third - hmmm. You are right some of the informaiton is restricted to a state, country, hemispher or group.

 Its amazing how much does not have to be. In the world of scouting some things are passed around and a few are country/group specific.

 Back to information. We may not eat the same foods but we all cook and must purify water.

 Culling and NPI's procedures that work in India may work perfectly well in North or South America.

 SusanC's pod ideas could be implimented almost anywhere in my opinion and the skills, ideas or themes that work. To see people all over the world start to prepare gets momentum going.

 In short teaching a kid from Beruit how to tie his shoes, pitch a tent and hike is not differnt than teaching an American kid. Burring a young child is probably no different either. That is something many will face.

 ReadyMoms can be translated into many languages with only changing food, hygine items and the containers.

 Just a thought for monthly news leter.

 Remember Urdar's stove? That is one example of and idea that can be done the world over. eBay is another. Even McDonalds is world wide.

Regards,
Kobie
"save the planet" - sign over HardRock Cafe


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share ideas, no specific details on people's location
Kobie's idea about how to help information flow among grassroots have yet to be explored in full, I think.  Or they are happening and waiting for a summary.  Or it's just me who doesn't see a clear picture yet.

We'd like to see a "preparedness culture" emerge.  There was a time when cars had no seatbelts or airbags, while now it'd be surprising if they didn't.

Such a movement starts with a few scattered individuals.  They try to find each other for support and cooperation on the ground, and that's difficult.  How many of us have seen other people, unknown to them, actually coughing in their elbow?

That's why I thought about a map that would show where awareness is growing, and help people find others.

But PEOPLE won't put themselves on the map if there's too much detailed information.  Ah, I know who the FooTown (nutty) person is!  (On the other hand, why was I looking at the map if I'm not interested myself?  This is a bit like when someone looks down on others while saying "I see you often at the (name a sinful place here)" - how does that person know if he's not a sinner too?)

http://www.openspaceworldmap.org/ is too personally detailed a map.  But they are into "open" space, so no surprise here.

And IDEAS?  Yes, ideas should be shared.  This needs exploration because we're looking for a flesh-internet interface here.  It has to be easy, non-obtrusive, and possibly fun.

You arm yourself to the teeth just in case.  You don't leave the gun near the baby's hand.


[ Parent ]
Many ideas
Lugon,

 Hi. Yes there are many parts.

 A news letter helps sychronize folks. An idea or cause will bring them together. Once people feel they are "good" and no longer lost they will want to go off in their own direction.

 This is not always bad but some issues come up.
 1) Who is who is an expert or trained at what?
 2) Recognition of who has done this for year, who has lead an presentaion, etc
 3) An open forum for exchanging ideas tends to remind the experts of the basics while brining the newbies up to speed.

 Lugon I like your web site of the interactive map. I hope people will reach out to others.

 In my opinion one problem with blogs is "I would not have found it if I was not looking for it" Hopefully people will start pushing the message out to those who do not yet know they need to find the message.

 A) Leave papers out at work
 B) Send emails
 C) Mention it to friends and faily
 D) Give a presentation at group you belong to.
 E) Use a room at teh library to hold an open meeting.
 F) Give a presentiaon or host a booth at a convention.

 So far I have only done A-C and hope to takle D this weekend. I have learned from DemFromCT and SusanC that public meetings are good but be prepared for people to get upset and possibly yell.

 The news letter is to get newbies going, keep preppers energized and ideas flowing for the benifit of all. A fluwiki from California can talk with a Fluwiki from Texas or Canada or India or Austrailia and all be on the same page.

 They would all understand the need for three or more months of food, how to SIP, how to get mayors involved, how to talk to business, how to get the word out at work, place of whorship and schools. Most of all - how to keep the family and kids safe.  

 What do you think?

Kobie
"Live the life others would want to emulate"


[ Parent ]
Cross referencing past diaries for our convenience:
Just-At-Home vs. Shelter-In-Place diary, June 9, 2007, wide-ranging discussion:
http://www.newfluwiki2.com/sho...

Just-At-Home vs. Shelter-In_Place diary, June 11, 2007, home "party" focus:
http://www.newfluwiki2.com/sho...

"The truth does not change according to our ability to stomach it."  Flannery O'Connor


Brilliant. n/t


"I am opposed to any form of tyranny over the mind of man."  Thomas Jefferson

Thoghts-
You know, As i was reading all this, WWII came to mind. Community bond sales, rolling bandages, women picking up the slack on the homefront (w/ men away), etc. Community dances for the military.  

This is like that, when you think of it. It has to start with the homefront. It has to start with grassroots, just like we were saying. WE have to pick up and get it moving. WE have to generate the interest and keep it motiviated on the homefront, with the women.  

www.EmergencyHomePreparation.org -- A 'card-catalog' style of prepping information.   -


Agreed, women made a huge contribution
IMO, the difference today is that women don't yet realize that their husbands, children, etc. are IN the bloody war.  After Dec. 7, 1941, the whole country felt the 2x4 across the head.  Men enlisted, every town had boys called for the draft, shortages of foods and other supplies had to be dealt with, factories changed what they made (lipsticks to cartridge cases, trucks to tanks?), etc.

But first there was the wake-up call.  

Your wonderful ReadyMoms organization is starting the awareness.  The name is perfect for showing where the burden lies.  I guess that's part of the message, huh?  (Guess I finally got it.)

"The truth does not change according to our ability to stomach it."  Flannery O'Connor


[ Parent ]
Also as during the (American) Civil War
Ladies' Aid Societies, Soldiers' Fairs, Sanitary Commission Fairs, Gunboat societies, etc.

[ Parent ]
There was an article in
this weekend's NYT about groups of like-minded, environmentally conscious women getting together over a bottle of wine and disucssing ways they themselves can help save the planet.  

I think it's brilliant!  Personally I've had the strongest impact when I can talk with people one-on-one about the threat, find a way to mak it real to them.  That's hard to do trying to get editors to publsih stories or gov't officials to do something.  This is another grass-roots way to push change up from below.  Nothing like getting a group of angry soccer-moms together to call for action!


angry + with a bottle of wine = The Scary Moms!


You arm yourself to the teeth just in case.  You don't leave the gun near the baby's hand.

[ Parent ]
Well, Kobie & Lugon,Inky, et al --
I'm thinking that you are both off to a fine start on another avenue of Moms-related preparedness! So, what do you think? Up for the challenge of getting something started? LOL! [wink-wink] -k

www.EmergencyHomePreparation.org -- A 'card-catalog' style of prepping information.   -

Yes.
I think we'd better give it a go.  There has to be a model for reaching people through social networks and for starting essential conversations about community preparedness, neighborhood by neighborhood.

[ Parent ]
things can be tried out on Second Life, for those with time ;-), *or* ...
i think the main point in the immediate term would be to explore http://www.meetup.com for speaker swapping

we could also look for ways to help folks trying to do this

so maybe the thing would be:

- call for volunteers (in a specific diary)
- people (it starts with ONE person) say "hey i'm ready to swap, and i live within 100 miles of whatever city"
- someone interested reads and responds
- both swap emails through trusted person or through "name (at) server (dot) com" syntax
- details are worked out through email
- at some point in time, there may be need to ask for help

help (remember this is not a one-shot thing, but a process and we want to learn from each instance to make it better the next zillion times):
- donations through paypal, pledges or whatever
- doggie care, rides
- help with setting up booths etc (you can just look (and act) helpful without showing you're a seasoned flubie)

the process could be wikified if that helps, for further refining

You arm yourself to the teeth just in case.  You don't leave the gun near the baby's hand.


[ Parent ]
using meetup.com will have the advantage of making us visible
and letting people self-organise without using our forums at all - it'll be hard to know how successful we are - how's that for (dreamed) success?

oh, and http://www.fluwikie.com/pmwiki... is up :-)

You arm yourself to the teeth just in case.  You don't leave the gun near the baby's hand.


[ Parent ]
and the diary to volunteer is - this one you're reading! :-)
(can't get any easier, methinks!)

You arm yourself to the teeth just in case.  You don't leave the gun near the baby's hand.

[ Parent ]
:) :) :) :) :) !!!!!
This is good stuff! Keep it going and build MOMENTUM! It has to be grassroots. It HAS to be moms.

And ...  if you are in PA and want to do this, let me know. Heck if you are in the tri-state area, I'll give you a hand. And, I'd LOVE to have you give me one to.

If we get enough people to step out and help in their neighboring community, the nerves that rattle a little on being open in your immediate community are gone. Neighbor helping neighbor. This seem to be the ONLY way this is going to get started. (At least while ReadyMoms Alliance is stirring the pot at the events we're attending. We are getting noticed. People are paying attention to what we have to offer!)

Please seriously consider what these fine folks are attempting to organize from the homefront. It really is easy.  -k

www.EmergencyHomePreparation.org -- A 'card-catalog' style of prepping information.   -


Weekend
I've got ideas I need to write out but no time to do that until the weekend.  In the meantime, it's exciting to see the discussion move forward!

[ Parent ]
glad you like it AND
we'd need, ok, i won't ask for it

but maybe, at some point in time,

this whole framework will be so good,
so useful and easy,
so compelling,

that we'll see bloggers talking about it
a lot

maybe!

You arm yourself to the teeth just in case.  You don't leave the gun near the baby's hand.


[ Parent ]
misc thoughts
An outstanding way to help families, neighborhoods and communities.  Some brief thoughts:

1.  The name  "Just-at-Home Resilient Living Parties" is perfect.  

2.  Successive meetings with potential for expansion makes sense.

3.  The first meeting is critical.  The group (even if it has some close friends in it), needs to go through a formation or socialization phase before work or other purposeful activity begins.  

Where does conversation happen?  Most often, the kitchen.  So...consider having the first "Just-at-Home Resilient Living Party" be a 'make your own pizza' affair.  The host provides the crust, sauce and cheese.  Guests to bring their own toppings.  While the pizza is being made, assembled and baked, the conversation is basically chit-chat - the socialization.

When its time to eat the host transitions to the purpose part, perhaps asking one of the group to take notes.  A good starting question is "why is resiliency important?"  This recognizes and respects that panflu may not be the chief concern of all guests.  You might end up with a list including economic concerns, worries about the cost of food and food supply, nostalgia for a more neighborly time, wanting to feel less dependent on the system, etc.  

Host then discusses how there is all this 'stuff' out there that no one knows how bad it might be or when any of it will happen.  We can't control these events as individuals, but we can prepare and lessen the impact on our lives.

Host asks members what their broad essential needs would be for the list of concerns (this would be similar to our topic list on the website).  Host summarizes list, noting that it is very difficult for a household to do all of these things, but that between everybody, a neighborhood can do most of them.

Host then briefly discusses panflu at an awareness level, including potential impact on the critical infrastructure.  A framework for panflu preparation has been developed (website center section topics).   We can tailor these guidelines to our neighborhood.  By preparing individually and as a neighborhood for panflu, we'll each be pretty much prepared for the other concerns.

Discussion of the topics can lead to host suggesting that for future meetings, we pick one topic (or sub-topic for something like food preservation) to discuss and perhaps do a project on.  Who would like to host the next meeting?

4.  Follow-up meetings (topic-specific).  The suggestion to include a hands-on project is excellent.  Lots of potential here...homemade solar oven, make a berkey filter, make a solar dehydrator, do some canning, etc.).  

Host should work with the group member hosting the next party to help with the topic, or other suggestions as appropriate.  

Some topics would benefit from a presentation/demonstration by an outside official, such as extension service for food preservation and law enforcement for home security.

5.  Follow-up meetings (overall).  After a few topic specific meetings, it would be good to review, and see where there are limitations that any group member might have, and see if there are ways this can be overcome.  Perhaps an apartment dweller can exchange weeding/irrigating chores for a space in someone else's garden, for example.  If appropriate to the group, a community garden would be great.

The food topic especially lends itself to follow-up meetings.  If there is interest in seed-saving during one of the food topics, the topic host might provide each person with a packet of OP seeds of salad makings, with the idea of a resiliency party in 2 months where participants bring a salad ingredient, and newly harvested seeds to give away to the others.


IdahoEM...Excellent suggestions
Thank you...and welcome to FluWiki! :-)

[ Parent ]
Yes, welcome!
Thanks for joining this conversation and for sharing excellent ideas that are sensitive to how groups form, grow and define their purpose.  We've got lots to think about!

[ Parent ]
"The first meeting is critical."
And so is the second, they say.  I think it was in FW (a great learning resource) where I read it's crucial to set the date for the second meeting before the first finishes. Apparently this was identified as a very important difference between groups taking off or not.

This ties in with the "pace keeper" concept, also used at the tabletop with bloggers idea.

Ideas and concepts, of course, need muscle if they are to happen.

You arm yourself to the teeth just in case.  You don't leave the gun near the baby's hand.


[ Parent ]
from ReadyMom
In her update last night from the Public Health Preparedness Summit in Atlanta, ReadyMom shared this:

Oh, before I forget. Regarding the 'Home Resiliancy' parties that are being discussed on FW ( http://www.newfluwiki2.com/sho... .) I was talking about that notion to a 3M representative (he was a regional manager there, helping out a vendor with their booth) They were a couple of booths away from us. I mentioned the idea of having PPE items and showing how to properly remove gloves or using masks. He thought it was a GREAT idea. He has posters that we can ask him for. AND .... (drum roll, please) he also has a training video that we can get for those parties. So you can have a video to watch how to properly fit test a mask ! All I have to do is call him to get this. he's impressed with what we are doing. So, if anyone is really interested in any of these things, let me know.

I think the posters and video sound like great resources.  

Other resources:

A person has to be certified as a Red Cross Instructor to obtain the video "Are You Prepared?" as a part of a Pandemic Flu Resource Kit. (I checked it out upon ReadyMom's recommendation in a comment above: this is a good introduction to the flu pandemic threat and not so overwhelming that people are inclined to shut down.)  I contacted my local Red Cross chapter.  There is an 8-hour training required of volunteers.  Since I don't have training or a medical background that qualifies me to talk about pandemic flu, I figure being a certified volunteer trainer will help a little with credibility. When I look at the situation that way, this is an opportunity, not a hurdle.


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